Deuteronomy 7:1-6—1 “When the LORD your God brings you into the land which you go to possess, and has cast out many nations before you, the Hittites and the Girgashites and the Amorites and the Canaanites and the Perizzites and the Hivites and the Jebusites, seven nations greater and mightier than you, 2 and when the LORD your God delivers them over to you, you shall conquer them and utterly destroy them. You shall make no covenant with them nor show mercy to them. 3 Nor shall you make marriages with them. You shall not give your daughter to their son, nor take their daughter for your son. 4 For they will turn your sons away from following Me, to serve other gods; so the anger of the LORD will be aroused against you and destroy you suddenly. 5 But thus you shall deal with them: you shall destroy their altars, and break down their sacred pillars, and cut down their wooden images, and burn their carved images with fire. 6 For you are a holy people to the LORD your God; the LORD your God has chosen you to be a people for Himself, a special treasure above all the peoples on the face of the earth.”
The people of Israel were to be separate and unique from the tribes and nations around them. The Israelites were not to marry into their families, they were not to adopt their customs. Why? Because if they did, the pagans would lead them into worshipping their gods, and this was the worst thing they could do. Which is why Paul said in 1st Corinthians 15:33 (ESV)—Do not be deceived: "Evil company corrupts good habits." It is easier for a moral and upright person to be influenced and led away by the immoral than for the immoral to be swayed by good habits. If you’ve read your Bible, which do you see happen more often? Do the Canaanites gravitate toward worshipping YHVH? Or do the Israelites begin to worship Ba'al? We human beings are a curious lot—we would rather chase after some fleeting pleasure that is no lasting good, than to wait upon something that will benefit us more in our later lives but will bring no immediate pleasure. Such was the mind of the Israelites (we see this in Numbers 25).
2 “When the LORD your God delivers them over to you, you shall conquer them and utterly destroy them. You shall make no covenant with them nor show mercy to them.” It was not by their might or their power that they would conquer the tribes of the Promised Land—it was God who would deliver them. And when He would conquer these tribes, they were not to forget the fiery hot indignation which God had toward them. They were not to simply subdue their armies, but they were to completely and utterly (and literally) wipe them off the face of the Earth. They were not to leave one single vestige of these armies alive, but were to slay every man of these armies. They were not to enter league with them, they were not to do business with them, they were not to show any mercy toward them, for these were peoples who worshipped idols made with hands, who practiced all kinds of wickedness in their religious rituals, and who did all kinds of things contrary to the righteous requirements of God. So Moses instructs them to wipe out every member of these armies and to not leave a one of them breathing.
3 “Nor shall you make marriages with them. You shall not give your daughter to their son, nor take their daughter for your son. 4 For they will turn your sons away from following Me, to serve other gods; so the anger of the LORD will be aroused against you and destroy you suddenly.” Moses commanded the Israelites to not allow their children to marry any of the sons or daughters of the people who lived in the land they were to possess. Why? “For they will turn your sons away from following Me, to serve other gods.” He knew that any intermarriage with these peoples would cause the Israelites to stumble into worshipping the idols these peoples worshipped and by doing so would lead them away from giving God the glory and honor due His name. And He would not tolerate that, for these people were a nation holy and set apart to God by God (see Exodus 19:6). If they mingled with these peoples, and worshipped the idols they worshipped, they would not be unique as a people, and would not be seen as any different from them. And that was not what God commanded—He commanded that they be different from the peoples around them.
See, marriage is not something to be entered into lightly. When you marry someone, you are taking all that person is and joining it to everything you are. Genesis 2:24—Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. When you get married, you and your spouse become one flesh. You are joined to her and she is joined to you. And when you take your vows you are saying that you accept everything that person is. Including their belief (or unbelief) in God. If you are in Christ, do you want to become one with a person who does not believe in God? Are you willing to say that you love this person—who denies the reality of God—that you can simply overlook their unbelief with a wink and a nod, and that this is attractive to you? 2nd Corinthians 6:14-18—14 Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? And what communion has light with darkness? 15 And what accord has Christ with Belial? Or what part has a believer with an unbeliever? 16 And what agreement has the temple of God with idols? For you are the temple of the living God. As God has said: "I will dwell in them and walk among them. I will be their God, and they shall be My people." 17 Therefore " ‘Come out from among them and be separate’, says the Lord. ‘Do not touch what is unclean, and I will receive you.’" 18 "I will be a Father to you, and you shall be My sons and daughters, says the LORD Almighty."
Those who are in Christ have the Holy Spirit—that is, God Himself—dwelling within them. Will that person join themselves to one who hates God? Will they become one with a person who worships a god of human invention? And if so, why? Sometimes believers think “Oh, if I love them enough, and I show how genuine my faith is, then eventually they will believe as well!” This is called “conjugal evangelism”, and is a popular notion that the unbelieving will grow towards God when in truth, it leads the follower of Christ further away from God. In an interview about his book “Surviving a Spiritual Mismatch”, Lee Strobel said:
Conjugal evangelism is trying to convert someone through marriage. It’s knowingly dating a non-Christian; the hope and belief that you will influence that person to become a Christian. Through interviewing lots of people for this book, we’ve found it’s more likely the woman is the Christian in these situations. She is more likely to lose her faith than the man is likely to gain faith. Often you have a reverse evangelism taking place. That’s a dangerous position. A Christian shouldn’t want to put themselves in to. We think conjugal evangelism is very dangerous. You deceive yourself into thinking the other person might be more spiritually receptive than they might be because your judgment might be clouded by romantic feelings or chemistry with the other person. Our counsel is that Christians should not even consider that. I’ve found even after we speak on this topic and we talk about all the turmoil, pain and conflict Leslie and I had when I was an atheist and she was a Christian, people will still come up afterwards and say, “I understand that. That’s really important, but I’m dating this guy and we’ll be married soon and he’s really close to becoming a Christian and I think if we just get married I’ll be able to influence him.” I want to shake them and say, “Read my lips: Do not become unequally yoked with a non-believer!” The bible says it for a reason; to protect us from the kind of pain and heartache Leslie and I endured for two years of our marriage.
(https://www.marriagetrac.com/lee-strobel-interview-2/)
It is a dangerous thing for the Christian to even date someone who is not a Christian. You are becoming intimate with one who has no interest in God, and will (more than likely) drag you away from Christ, rather than you bringing the unbeliever closer to Christ “But isn’t that kind of thinking showing a lack of faith in God? Who’s to say the unbeliever won’t be converted?” My friend, I did not write the words of 2nd Corinthians 6:14-18, the apostle Paul did. And he got those words from none other than the Holy Spirit himself. He said again, in another place, 15 Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ? Shall I then take the members of Christ and make them members of a harlot? Certainly not! 16 Or do you not know that he who is joined to a harlot is one body with her? For "the two," He says, "shall become one flesh" (1st Corinthians 6:15-16). If you are in Christ, every single part of you belongs to God. Shall you then become one flesh with a harlot, one who does not believe in God but rather openly mocks God? Is that the message you want to be showing the world? Would it not rather be more beneficial—for you and for the body of Christ—to become one with a person who knows God and loves Christ? To take as your own flesh and blood one who knows what it is like to walk the paths of righteousness with God as their guide? If you take one who does not know God, and something happens and you need godly guidance, will the unbeliever be able to help? Can two walk together, unless they are agreed? (Amos 3:3). But the one who knows God can help you up, bring you close to God when you need Him, and help you limp along until you are back on the path and standing strong again. You are one flesh with your spouse, and if you are walking with God, and your spouse is walking with God, then you and your spouse—being one flesh—and God, could rightly be called the two spoken of here in Amos.
5 “But thus you shall deal with them: you shall destroy their altars, and break down their sacred pillars, and cut down their wooden images, and burn their carved images with fire. 6 For you are a holy people to the LORD your God; the LORD your God has chosen you to be a people for Himself, a special treasure above all the peoples on the face of the earth.” How many times did some of the kings of Israel and Judah depart from worshipping God and turn to worshipping idols? Jeroboam, Nadab, Baasha, Elah, Zimri, Omri, Ahab, Ahaziah, Joram, Jehoash, Jeroboam II, Zechariah, Shallum, Menachem, Pekiah, Pekah, and Hoshea in the northern kingdom of Israel; Rehoboam, Abijam, Jehoram, Ahaziah, Athaliah, Ahaz, Amon, Jehoahaz, Jehoiakim, Jehoiachin, and Zedekiah in Judah. All these did wickedly before the LORD, and built altars and high places and images to Ba'al and Ashtoreth. (Even some of the “good” kings weren’t always good. Nevertheless, God did not wipe out the people for the sake of His servant David (see 2nd Kings 8:19).)
But this was not what God commanded, and certainly not what He wanted. “You shall destroy their altars, and break down their sacred pillars, and cut down their wooden images, and burn their carved images with fire.” Just as they were to obliterate the armies of the peoples they were to encounter, so they were to obliterate the idols these peoples worshipped. God will not tolerate the worship of false gods (Exodus 23:13, 34:14; Jeremiah 44:5). And either in this life, or in eternity, God will punish those who do so. Because there is but one God over all creation, and He will not acknowledge the existence of other gods. This was the first command in the Decalogue, “You shall have no other gods before Me” (Exodus 20:3). He and He alone is God (Psalm 86:10), and should be worshipped as such. When we dabble into looking at other gods and being fascinated by them, we are on a road that can lead to our destruction. The same thing happened to the people of Israel. Moses, in Deuteronomy 32:15-17, would call to their minds the time when they provoked God by worshipping other gods. And why did they do that? Because they had grown as a nation, they thought that it was because of they themselves that they had thus grown. They forgot that it was God who made them grow bigger—that it was God who had supplied their needs, and that they had done nothing of themselves to make themselves more than they were. Deuteronomy 32:15-17—15 “But Jeshurun grew fat and kicked; you grew fat, you grew thick, you are obese! Then he forsook God who made him, and scornfully esteemed the Rock of his salvation. 16 They provoked Him to jealousy with foreign gods; with abominations they provoked Him to anger. 17 They sacrificed to demons, not to God, to gods they did not know, to new gods, new arrivals that your fathers did not fear.” (Note: “Jeshurun” is a poetical name for Israel, and is rendered ἠγαπημένος [egapemenos, “the beloved one”] in the Septuagint. It carries the same sort of connotation as Αββα [Abba, “Dad”] in the New Testament). Notice in Verse 17 he calls them “demons”. The Psalmist uses the same language in Psalm 106:37—They even sacrificed their sons and their daughters to demons. All who believe in and love God should also consider anything that exalts itself as God, but is not God, to be nothing more than a fabrication of Satan, and a demon. For who is the liar, and father of it (John 8:44)? Who told the first lie in Genesis 3:1? Who is it that wants to destroy everything about God, to lead His children away from the truth, and to keep them in chains forever? It is this same Satan.
Today, however, we have a new demon to beware of. It is not Ba'al or Ashtoreth, which are no more. It is not Dagon, who is nothing more than a whisper of a thought today. And yes, we do have the false gods like Allah or the “God” of Mormonism. But this god is more crafty than these, for it is one we use every day, and need to use every day. That god is money, more specifically the love of it. Now, money may not seem to be a god or something people worship, but it can be. If one stores up for themselves more money than a thousand people can spend in a lifetime, for no other reason than to say they have it, that is when it becomes an idol. 1st Timothy 6:9-10—9 But those who desire to be rich fall into temptation and a snare, and into many foolish and harmful lusts which drown men in destruction and perdition. 10 For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Can a person have a billion dollars when not originally intending to do so? Well, yes. I don’t think Jeff Bezos or Mark Zuckerberg thought their businesses would become as lucrative as they have become. But when one sets out to have a billion dollars and that is their main goal in life, it distracts them from the one thing that is more important than anything else—God, and the worship of Him. “So I’d like to have a billion dollars, what’s the harm?” Ah, but how would you go about getting that billion dollars? And would that pursuit of that billion dollars take your mind away from God, and cause you to want to defraud your neighbor? That, my friend is covetousness, which is idolatry (Colossians 3:5). Jesus even warns us about coveting wealth, first in Matthew 6:19,21—19 “Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal…21 For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” A few verses later He tells us in Matthew 6:24 (repeated in Luke 16:13)—“No one can serve two masters; for either he will hate the one and love the other, or else he will be loyal to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and mammon.” In other words, is your heart with stuff and things and money, or is it with God? Will you serve God or wealth?
Forbid it, Lord, that I should boast/save in the death of Christ, my God!
All the vain things that charm me most,/I sacrifice them through his blood.
Were the whole realm of nature mine,/that were a present far too small.
Love so amazing, so divine,/demands my soul, my life, my all.
(Isaac Watts, “When I Survey the Wondrous Cross”)
Let not your heart be set on this worlds or the things of it. Think of Christian in John Bunyan’s “The Pilgrim’s Progress”, how he set down his burden when he came to the cross:
He ran thus till he came to a place somewhat ascending; and upon that place stood a cross, and little below in the bottom, a sepulchre. So I saw in my dream, that just as Christian came up with the cross, his burden loosed from off his shoulders, and fell from off his back; and began to tumble, and so continued to do so until it came to the mouth of the sepulchre, where it fell in, and I saw it no more.
1st Timothy 6:8—And having food and clothing, with these we shall be content. Philippians 4:11-12—11 Not that I speak in regard to need, for I have learned in whatever state I am, to be content: 12 I know how to be abased, and I know how to abound. Everywhere and in all things I have learned both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need. Friend, if God has given you the things you need, do not go chasing after the world or the things the world says you need. For we need nothing other than Christ. He is the only thing we truly need. Let our prayer rather be like the words of Proverbs 30:7-9—7 Two things I request of You (Deprive me not before I die): 8 Remove falsehood and lies far from me; give me neither poverty nor riches—feed me with the food allotted to me; 9 lest I be full and deny You, and say, "Who is the LORD?" or lest I be poor and steal, and profane the name of my God. (You probably won’t hear Kenneth Copeland or Paula White preach that passage!)
Part 2 next week
