1st Timothy 2:4

1st Timothy 2:1-4 (NKJV)

Again, the questions:
- Who was this written to?
- Why was it written?
- What was the idea being expressed?
That said, let us examine the passage in question. And as we do, we will see a slight (but very important) distinction between the word translated here as "desires" and the word translated other places as referring to God's "will." In biblical Greek, there are words and other grammatical tools we do not have in English. There are ever-so-slight variations in the meanings of certain words (e.g., saw, looked, glanced, spotted...). That is why the process of translation is one which is very long, very tedious, and should NEVER be undertaken with any intentions other than to glorify God, and never entered into lightly.
First, there is the word "desires" as in God the Father, who desires all men to be saved..." This is the Greek word "thelo." This is a bit of a sticky wicket (as they would say across the pond), for it has various meanings. It can mean "to intend, to purpose" or even "will" (not the noun "will" but the verb, the future tense of "to be"). However, if we use that meaning, then God is a liar, for then it would read, God the Father, who intends all men to be saved... I dare say none of us believe in universal salvation, which would be implied by that statement.
However, there is another, more common meaning: "to desire, to wish; to love; to take delight in, have pleasure." This meaning fits better, because God would indeed "desire" all men knowing the truth. Thus, "desire" is the better fit here, because it is in the present tense. God the Father, who desires (wishes) all men be saved... It is the word used by Christ in Matthew 23:37

Alas, this is where the hair must be split. For even though God desires or wants something, is it necessarily His "will" (the noun form of the word "will") to act upon that desire? No. It is not God's will to save every man. Because if you notice, in the phrase God the Father...desires all men to be saved, the word "saved" is in the passive voice. In other words, Paul is not saying that God desires to save all men--only that He desires they be saved. If He wanted to save all men, they would be saved.
Consider this: If it is God's will to save all men--ALL men--then would He not defeat His own purpose by creating men whose sole purpose was to become the object of His wrath, that He may show His wrath by pouring it out upon them? Would He not also confuse His purpose by blinding people's eyes so they would not know the truth? What about if He destroyed entire nations who did not know the truth--would He not be contradicting Himself if it was His to save them? And if it is His will that all men come to repentance, would He not subordinate that will if He made it impossible for people to return to the truth once they found it? I believe we would all answer in the affirmative to these questions. So then from the Scriptures let us examine these and see if it is indeed His will that "all men be saved."
1) Would He not defeat His own purpose by creating men whose sole purpose was to become the object of His wrath, that He may show His wrath by pouring it out upon them?
Romans 9:17-18


2) Would He not also confuse His purpose by blinding people's eyes so they would not know the truth?
Romans 1:24-28

Matthew 13:10-13

If God's will is that all men know the truth, shouldn't Jesus have opened up and explained the truth to these men? If that is indeed His will, then He has confused it by keeping the truth from them. What about nations that never knew YHVH? Would He destroy them, or lead them into truth?
3) What about if He destroyed entire nations who did not know the truth--would He not be contradicting Himself if it was His to save them?
Numbers 21:3

4) And if it is His will that all men come to repentance, would He not subordinate that will if He made it impossible for people to return to the truth once they found it?
Hebrews 6:4-6

We know that God's word does not contradict itself. So we must reconcile the idea that God wants all men to be saved, but will not save all men. How do we bring these two together? We let Scripture interpret Scripture. See, here's the thing: There is a difference between thelo (want, desire, take delight in) and the word translated "will" (as in "Thy will be done"), which is thelhema--"what one wishes or has determined shall be done." It implies a desire that causes one to take action. There is an excellent illustration of the difference in Matthew 21:28-31

Another example is John 1:12-13

Then there is a third Greek word, boulomai. It means, "to will deliberately, have a purpose, be minded." Basically, "I want it to happen, and I am going to do whatever it takes to make it happen." And oh, irony of ironies. Guess where we find this word? 2nd Peter 3:9

It is also used by James in his epistle. James 4:4

In this letter to his young protege, Paul is telling Timothy that God wants all men to be saved and to know Him. But he is not saying that God will save all men and show Himself to all men. God will not open the eyes of every single human so they will know the truth. For God has created, based on His own Boulomai, some vessels prepared for destruction--that is, designed with the specific purpose of being the object of His wrath (see again Romans 9).
Let me finish up with this illustration: suppose a judge is sitting on the bench. Before him is a man who robbed a bank to buy his son some new shoes. The man has a wife, a couple kids. And in his compassion he desires to let the man go free. But he is bound by an immutable law that says crimes must be punished. So he must sentence the man to prison. Because even though his heart wants to pardon the man, he is bound by his even deeper desire to uphold justice, and to show himself just, and to show those who don't break the law the consequences of breaking the law. This may be a human illustration, but I think it comes pretty close in terms of describing this matter. God, in His compassionate heart, wants all men to know Him.
But in order to show Himself just, and to show forth His wrath, and to show the vessels of mercy the consequences of being God's enemy, He allows many to go into perdition and destruction. He wishes He could save them all. But then how would any know of His Divine justice and His divine wrath? Therefore, He must let many go to destruction, and even cause some to go to destruction. It's a hard truth, but truth none the less.
The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit.