On Memorial Day weekend, many towns have parades, and festivals. People go to cemeteries and put flowers on the graves of soldiers. My dad was in the Army in WWII. And every year, me and my mom and my dad would go to the different cemeteries where my earlier ancestors were buried, and put flowers on the graves. This was an all-day thing because we had to do dad’s side of the family and then we had to do mom’s side. Memorial Day is a holiday where we remember the dead. And we pay our respects to them.
But you want to know something that’s really awesome? Every day we get to celebrate someone who died. But He ain't dead anymore! We honor our Lord who gave His life for us—much like the brave men and women who have and still are giving their lives for our freedom—but unlike those brave ones who would never return, our Lord has indeed risen! I love Revelation 1:18

1st Timothy 1:16


Our body is the temple of God. This body is a temple for the Holy Spirit. And all these things are ways to decorate that temple, so that it can serve as a memorial for the one who died for us. We decorate graves—we lay wreaths and flowers and other things—to honor those who have died. But if we are Christ's, our body is not a grave for a dead soul. This is a vessel for the Spirit of a living King! Shouldn’t the vessel that is inhabited by the Spirit of our Risen Savior be decorated as well? We decorate graves so people will see it and say, "The body of a fallen soldier lies in that grave." Shouldn’t our lives make people look and say, “The Spirit of the Living God and His Christ lives in that person!”
22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith. "Faithfulness" (NKJV, NASB) is actually the better translation here. When is it easiest to be faithful to someone? When everything’s going good. When they're our friend. If it’s not going to cost us too much. See, it’s really easy to be loyal to a person if you both have the same goals. Ever heard the phrase “Honor among thieves?” Or, “The enemy of my enemy is my friend?” Finish this sentence—“You scratch my back…” How about this one—“It’s not what you know…” These are examples of how easy it is to honor a commitment to someone who can do something for us. You do this for me, I'll do that for you. But the faithfulness that is the fruit of the Spirit doesn’t look to be paid back.
This faithfulness leads us to do the right thing even when it costs us something. When we make a commitment to someone and it turns out that it’s going to take more than we thought it would to honor that commitment. Ever had a garage call you at 4:45 and say, “I know we said we’d have it done today, but we ain't. The part just got here, it’ll take us an hour to put it in and we close in 15 minutes.” It’s almost like they're saying, “Need it for tomorrow morning? Tough luck.” Other places will say, “We said we’d have it done for you today. We just got the part in, and we may have to work over, but we will get it done today and we will not go home until it’s done.” All things being equal, guess which place gets my business? And that is the biblical way to run a business. One of the fellows I go to church with runs a hot-rod restoration business. I’m sure he's had it happen. Some part is going to be late coming in. But if he can get it done that day, he does it. Other than the fact that it’s biblical, why does he do it? Because that's his name on the business. That said, whose name do we have on us? If we can't be trusted in earthly matters, why should we be believed in eternal matters?
That should be the pattern of every part of our walk with Christ. Faithfulness. Loyalty. It goes back to integrity, or what we looked at least time—goodness. Psalm 15:1



I wish we had time to look at the story of Joshua, when the enemies of Israel tricked them into taking an oath not to hurt them. Joshua found out, and he said, “We swore in the name of YHVH. We can't go back on it now.” Faithfulness. Not only to men but also to God. It’s easy to serve Him and be faithful to Him when He makes His face to shine on us. “God is good! God is great!” Let things start going downhill. Let a crisis come up where we have to lose something. Or He calls us to something we’re not comfortable with.
I’m sure it wasn’t easy for Abraham to walk Isaac up that hill. I’m sure it wasn’t easy for Esther to court of the king, uninvited, to plead for Israel, knowing he had the power to say, “Kill her!” It wasn’t easy for Noah to listen to all the people laugh at him when he was building that boat. It wasn’t easy for Elizabeth Eliot to go to South America and take the gospel to the men who killed her husband. But these people—and so very many more like them that we will never hear about in this life, but we will meet someday—as Jonah said, paid the vows they vowed. They told God, like that old song we sing, “Wherever You lead, I'll go.” He led. They went.
Now, let me just say a couple words about faith. Because faith is the root of faithfulness. Hebrews 11:1

You have faith that God is real? Good. How is that going to influence your life? This type of faith leads to faithfulness—like the faithfulness of a servant to his master. How many masters can we have? We can only be faithful to one master. Either the world is our master, or God is our master. Everyone has a master. Everybody serves someone. Everyone is a slave to something—or someone. If you ever feel convicted because you have a spiritual struggle going on inside of you—read Romans 7. You won’t feel so bad because you'll realize the apostle Paul went through the same thing. He said in Romans 7:25

Luke 16:13


God deserves our faithfulness. Because—well, because He’s God! Also because He is faithful to us. Even after we know Him, and we go and do our own thing for a while, He will bring us back to Himself. Because He is faithful. If you ever want to point someone to a verse that affirms the security of the believers abnd the perseverance of the saints, point them to Philippians 1:6

The faithfulness of God:
- Deuteronomy 7:9
—Therefore know that the LORD your God, He is God, the faithful God who keeps covenant and mercy for a thousand generations with those who love Him and keep His commandments.
- Psalm 119:89-90
—For ever, O LORD, thy word is settled in heaven. Thy faithfulness is unto all generations: thou hast established the earth, and it abideth.
- John 14:2-3
—2 “In My Father’s house are many mansions; if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you. 3 And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and receive you to Myself; that where I am, there you may be also.”
- Hebrews 2:17
—Therefore, in all things He had to be made like His brethren, that He might be a merciful and faithful High Priest in things pertaining to God, to make propitiation for the sins of the people.
- Revelation 3:14
—"And to the angel of the church of the Laodiceans write, 'These things says the Amen, the Faithful and True Witness, the Beginning of the creation of God:'"
He is merciful to us—not because we somehow deserve it—but because that’s who He is—He is faithful and true. He is the Amen. If He builds us a house, we will live in it. And the evidence that the Holy Spirit is dwelling in us is when we are faithful to others and especially to God even when there is nothing to be gained by it or when it costs us.
The Fruit of the Spirit is…meekness. Oh boy. There’s another one our flesh doesn’t like. Our flesh HATES that word. Before we go too far, let me say this right at the start—meekness does not mean what most people think it means. Most people think that being meek means you’re a doormat, you can't think for yourself, you can't speak for yourself. Wrong. In fact, one who is meek is far stronger than someone who is constantly asserting their “rights” or always fighting to get to the front or get to the top. The person who is “meek” realizes that fighting to be #1 isn't always what it’s cracked up to be. See, meekness and faithfulness—and as we will see next week, temperance—are built one on top of the other. If we are faithful to God, we will subject ourselves to Him and bring our own bodies under subjection to the Spirit that is in us.
To be meek means that we understand just who we are. And in order to serve God a person MUST be meek. So many times people stand up to God when He calls them to do something they don’t want to do. As if our stubbornness will make Him change His mind. But if we are to love God, and He is to be our joy, and if we are to have peace with Him, we must be patient, have a gentle spirit toward Him, do the right thing for the right reason, and if we are going to say we will be faithful to Him, how dare we stand up to Him and say, “No, God, I ain't gonna do that! I’m too good for that!” Serving God is not about exercising our “rights.” Because if we think about it, God did not exercise His rights to condemn each and every one of us.
When we understand this, when we understand that every good thing comes from God, that He has given us far more than we deserve, we will seek to serve Him and Him alone—in faithfulness—and we will be at His every command, ready for Him to use us. We will humble ourselves before Him and ask “What would You have me to do?” Matthew 5:5



Philippians 2:5-7

There’s another misconception people have about the meekness of Christ. They think He was this kinda laid-back hippie-type slacker dude. Didn’t cause any waves. Just wanted everybody to get along. Is that the kind of person that makes a whip and drives people out of a temple? Does a person like that tell Pharisees that they are hypocrites, serpents, brood of vipers? But Jesus was meek in that when He could have saved His skin, He didn’t. Matthew 26:53-54

And think about this: If Jesus had saved His own skin, where would we be headed? He allowed Himself to be sacrificed for us. For us. A bunch of liars and thieves and murderers and corrupt and haters of God. Yet HE served US. He humbled Himself for US. He gave us something we did not deserve. And He did not give us what we do deserve. That should cause us to be even more humble. Romans 12:3

Just so we don’t get too puffed up about ourselves, let’s remember the example Jesus gave us. Remember that we are just as imperfect and fallen as anyone else. If we do we will be able to help others who go through valleys. Galatians 6:1


If we love God, then knowing Him is our joy. Finding joy in Him gives us peace. Peace helps us to be patient. Because we are patient we can be gentle to others. If we are gentle to others, we will walk in integrity. If we have integrity we can be faithful to promises we make. If we are faithful we will humble ourselves and submit ourselves to His calling and purpose, realizing that without Him we can do nothing.