Numbers 12:10-14—10 And when the cloud departed from above the tabernacle, suddenly Miriam became leprous, as white as snow. Then Aaron turned toward Miriam, and there she was, a leper. 11 So Aaron said to Moses, "Oh, my lord! Please do not lay this sin on us, in which we have done foolishly and in which we have sinned. 12 Please do not let her be as one dead, whose flesh is half consumed when he comes out of his mother's womb!" 13 So Moses cried out to the LORD, saying, "Please heal her, O God, I pray!" 14 Then the LORD said to Moses, "If her father had but spit in her face, would she not be shamed seven days? Let her be shut out of the camp seven days, and afterward she may be received again."
How angry was God with Miriam? So angry that He caused her to be leprous. We covered all the regulations concerning leprosy in Leviticus 13 and 14. And now, Miriam, sister of the man to whom God spoke face to face, would have to live under these regulations. As I said at the outset, she didn’t like Moses marrying a woman darker than him, so God made her white as snow. And yet again, as in our previous chapter, we see Moses entreat God to stop the consequence of the actions of one who had spoken rashly.
The question God asks, “If her father had but spit in her face, would she not be shamed seven days?” There is no commandment or injunction in the Law like this except in Deuteronomy 25:9, and that only speaks of a woman spitting in the face of a man who will not marry her according to the Levirate marriage. It was, however, from everything I’ve read, a common practice at the time, when a daughter had brought shame on the family, for the father to publicly disgrace her and send her away for a time of remorse and repentance, that she may come back sorrowful and more apt to not disgrace the family any more. The Pulpit Commentary says:
It was the distinctive note of public disgrace inflicted by one who had a right to inflict it. In the case of a father, it meant that he was thoroughly ashamed of his child, and judged it best (which would be only in extreme cases) to put his child to shame before all the world. So public a disgrace would certainly be felt in patriarchal times as a most severe calamity, and entailed by ordinary custom (as we learn here) retirement and mourning for seven days at least. How much more, when her heavenly Father had been driven to inflict a public disgrace upon her for perverse behavior, should the shame and the sorrow not be lightly put away, but patiently endured for a decent period!
God knows how to punish the unruly. He knows how to chasten His children (Deuteronomy 8:5; Hebrews 12:6). He has to chastise us, because we can, many times, be unruly children who need a spanking. He could have very easily sent down fire and consumed her, but He didn’t. He could have turned her into a pillar of salt as He did with Lot’s wife, but He didn’t. He could have made two she-bears appear (2nd Kings 2:23-24) and devour her, but He didn’t. He doesn’t destroy His children. He chastises them, He punishes them, He may even leave them alone with Satan for a spell that they may learn that sin is sin and they may repent and turn again to Him (1st Corinthians 5:5). And this was a case where God chastised Miriam for her speaking so harshly against God’s servant. 1st Chronicles 16:22—"Do not touch My anointed ones, and do My prophets no harm."
You may think “Why didn’t Aaron suffer some kind of punishment?” Well, he was the High Priest. He would have had to have been put outside the camp, and the people would have been without a High Priest for seven days. There were certain duties the High Priest alone had to carry out. Not only that, there would have been the shame of the situation, if the High Priest had become leprous and put outside the camp for seven days. Knowing this people, how rebellious and stiff-necked they were, and how quickly they turned from serving God to serving idols, what kind of shape would the camp be in? Whatever the reason Aaron was spared punishment, we must remember one thing—this was God’s decision, and we must always agree that His is the proper punishment. You see, there are many parents who do not know or understand how to properly punish their children. Many are too harsh and end up abusing their children, leaving scars that the child will bear for most of, if not all of, their life. They grow up into adults that despise authority and rebel any time anyone tries to impose any kind of rules over them. And if you try to share the gospel with them, they spurn it as just another attempt to place them under some ogre who only wants to punish them and berate and abuse them. Dave Pelzer wrote a series of books about the abuse he suffered at the hands of his mother, the first being “A Child Called ‘It’”. These books chronicle his life and how he went from being severely abused to becoming a functioning member of society. Not all such children are so lucky, however. Many never escape the mental problems brought on by the physical abuse, end up in jail and/or prison and, worst of all, never know Jesus as their Savior and wind up spending eternity in Hell.
Some, on the other hand, are far too lenient and do not punish their children enough, so the child grows up and has no respect for any authority, neither parent, nor human law, nor God. When they grow older, they will not have any respect for any kind of boundaries, and they will be like the Israelites who consistently refused to be ruled by the Great King and Potentate of all Creation. You can see them all over the place, especially on social media, flaunting their sins, never thinking about giving an account to anyone, especially God. They go through life seeking more and more attention from this world, only thinking of what they can get now, only thinking of the material gains of attention, likes, follows, and money. Never thinking that there is One greater than themselves, they chase after one dopamine high after another, never accomplishing anything that will be of any benefit in eternity, only the fleeting winds of what this world can offer.
James 4:13-14—13 Come now, you who say, "Today or tomorrow we will go to such and such a city, spend a year there, buy and sell, and make a profit"; 14 whereas you do not know what will happen tomorrow. For what is your life? It is even a vapor that appears for a little time and then vanishes away. Ecclesiastes 5:13-17—13 There is a severe evil which I have seen under the sun: Riches kept for their owner to his hurt. 14 But those riches perish through misfortune; when he begets a son, there is nothing in his hand. 15 As he came from his mother's womb, naked shall he return, to go as he came; and he shall take nothing from his labor which he may carry away in his hand. 16 And this also is a severe evil—just exactly as he came, so shall he go. And what profit has he who has labored for the wind? 17 All his days he also eats in darkness, and he has much sorrow and sickness and anger. James 5:1-3—1 Come now, you rich, weep and howl for your miseries that are coming upon you! 2 Your riches are corrupted, and your garments are moth-eaten. 3 Your gold and silver are corroded, and their corrosion will be a witness against you and will eat your flesh like fire. You have heaped up treasure in the last days. Anything we can gain in this life will be burnt up at the last Day. And if it is only something that profits us a little in the here and now, it will be gone forever, never to be remembered again. Parents, make sure you discipline your children in the right way, and for the right reasons. Let them understand why you’re chastening them—not because they are making your life inconvenient, but so they learn correction early, that they may not suffer a far greater and eternal punishment later. Proverbs 13:24—He who spares his rod hates his son, but he who loves him disciplines him promptly. Proverbs 23:13—Do not withhold correction from a child, for if you beat him with a rod, he will not die. Proverbs 29:15—The rod and rebuke give wisdom, but a child left to himself brings shame to his mother. So God knows how and whom to punish. And He does so perfectly. So let us not question why Aaron wasn’t punished for his insolence, but rather, let us remember the example that God has given us, and not speak falsely about His leaders.
And let us also remember another thing: when God chastises us, it is always with a promise. See, the abusive parent simply chastises the child for no reason but to exact punishment. But when God punished us, it is for a reason: that we may know that we have done wrong. You may say, “But Christ died on the Cross for my sins, why do I need to be punished now?” (It is the principle behind the horrendous Roman Catholic idea of Purgatory.) For this reason: that you may turn from your wicked ways and follow Him. It was why God allowed the Babylonians to carry away Israel captive. 2nd Chronicles 36:15-17—15 And the LORD God of their fathers sent warnings to them by His messengers, rising up early and sending them, because He had compassion on His people and on His dwelling place. 16 But they mocked the messengers of God, despised His words, and scoffed at His prophets, until the wrath of the LORD arose against His people, till there was no remedy. 17 Therefore He brought against them the king of the Chaldeans, who killed their young men with the sword in the house of their sanctuary, and had no compassion on young man or virgin, on the aged or the weak; He gave them all into his hand. The kings and priests rebelled against God, they worshipped idols, and were resistant to His urgings. So He gave them into the hands of their enemies and they were taken out of their land. But God… This captivity was but for a moment. He would show the people of Israel that He was not done with them, and had not utterly cast them away. Further on, in 2nd Chronicles 36:22-23—22 Now in the first year of Cyrus king of Persia, that the word of the LORD by the mouth of Jeremiah might be fulfilled, the LORD stirred up the spirit of Cyrus king of Persia, so that he made a proclamation throughout all his kingdom, and also put it in writing, saying, 23 “Thus says Cyrus king of Persia: ‘All the kingdoms of the earth the LORD God of heaven has given me. And He has commanded me to build Him a house at Jerusalem which is in Judah. Who is among you of all His people? May the LORD his God be with him, and let him go up!’” You see, chastisement is much different than condemnation. We are condemned when we reject God and His offer of eternal salvation through Jesus Christ. When we embrace Him, however, He will guide us along, and correct us when we do wrong. Just as a father does his son. And a good father will explain to his son that the punishment he receives for his disobedience is so that he may know to do right rather than wrong, that he may grow up to live a peaceable life. Hebrews 12:6-11—6 “For whom the LORD loves He chastens, And scourges every son whom He receives.” 7 If you endure chastening, God deals with you as with sons; for what son is there whom a father does not chasten? 8 But if you are without chastening, of which all have become partakers, then you are illegitimate and not sons. 9 Furthermore, we have had human fathers who corrected us, and we paid them respect. Shall we not much more readily be in subjection to the Father of spirits and live? 10 For they indeed for a few days chastened us as seemed best to them, but He for our profit, that we may be partakers of His holiness. 11 Now no chastening seems to be joyful for the present, but painful; nevertheless, afterward it yields the peaceable fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it. As Charles Spurgeon said of this passage:
Oh! What comfort there is here! Whenever we are under the scourging hand of God, how we ought to be cheered with the thought that this is a part of the heritage of the children. There are Elis who spoil their children. God is not one of them. He spares not the rod, and the more he loves, often the more he corrects. A tree of common fruit may be let alone so long as there is some little fruit on it, but the very best fruit gets the sharpest pruning; and I have noticed that in those countries where the best wine is made, the vine-dressers cut the shoots right close in, and in the winter you cannot tell that there is a vine there at all unless you watch very carefully. They must cut them back sharp to get sweet clusters. The Lord does thus with his beloved. It is not anger. Afflictions are not always anger. There are often tokens of great love.
There is one more thing to glean from this passage. The Ethiopian woman Moses married. At the time that Numbers was written, what we now call Ethiopia was called Cush. If you see the word “Cush” in the Bible, it is referring to what is now Ethiopia. Cush was a son of Ham, one of the sons of Noah. It was Ham that found Noah drunk and naked in his tent, and told his brothers. Something must have happened more than Ham simply finding Noah in such a state, as it says in Genesis 9:24—So Noah awoke from his wine, and knew what his younger son had done to him. Something happened we don’t know what—we can speculate, but we do not know. Anyway, Noah places a curse on Ham’s descendants that they will serve the descendants of Shem and Japheth. This may have been what had incensed Miriam and Aaron to anger against Moses taking a wife of the Cushites. At any rate, what I learned was that this was a picture of the Church. Jews at the time of Christ looked very unfavorably upon the Gentiles. As I said before, there was a saying among Jews that the Gentiles were to be used as fuel for the fires of Hell. The Jews believed that Gentiles were not fit for the kingdom of God. Jesus, when He encountered the Syro-Phoenician woman, says rather quizzingly, that the Kingdom is not for Gentiles. Mark 7:26-27—26 The woman was a Greek, a Syro-Phoenician by birth, and she kept asking Him to cast the demon out of her daughter. 27 But Jesus said to her, "Let the children be filled first, for it is not good to take the children's bread and throw it to the little dogs." Many would say that Jesus was not being loving here, but hold on. Jesus was the embodiment of love, and would not have simply cast aside this woman, seeing as how He healed the servant of a Roman centurion (Matthew 8:5-13; Luke 7:6-10). No, rather He said this to test her faith, to see if she believed that Gentiles could be saved. She answers Him well, and He performs what she asked of Him. Mark 7:28-30—28 And she answered and said to Him, "Yes, Lord, yet even the little dogs under the table eat from the children's crumbs." 29 Then He said to her, "For this saying go your way; the demon has gone out of your daughter." 30 And when she had come to her house, she found the demon gone out, and her daughter lying on the bed. And in so doing, showed that He had broken down the middle wall of separation between Jew and Gentile. Let us not despise our brethren for their spouse, remembering that the same Jesus died for all, both Jew and Gentile, Black and White, Red, Brown and Yellow.
Numbers 12:15-16—15 So Miriam was shut out of the camp seven days, and the people did not journey till Miriam was brought in again. 16 And afterward the people moved from Hazeroth and camped in the Wilderness of Paran. So, after the Quail Incident, after the Miriam/Aaron Incident, the people finally move from Hazeroth to the Wilderness of Paran. The first we read of the Wilderness of Paran is in Genesis 21. Hagar had birthed Ishmael to Abraham. Ishmael mocked Isaac at Isaac’s weaning, and Sarah told Moses to cast out the bondwoman and her son (Genesis 21:10). Hagar and Ishmael go out, eventually they run out of water and Hagar doesn’t know what to do to feed or water her and her son. Then God speaks to her, and she lifts up her eyes and what does she see? Genesis 21:19—Then God opened her eyes, and she saw a well of water. Eventually, Ishmael would settle in the Wilderness of Paran (Genesis 21:21). The same Wilderness of Paran that God was leading the people to. And why was He leading them there? Because there was a well. And they had to have water for over a half million people. So He led them to a place where there was water in this vast and rugged wilderness. If you get a chance, look up “Wilderness of Paran” and you will see that it is indeed a vast wilderness, literally a desert. Nothing but sand and rocks as far as the eye can see. This is where the cloud was leading them. You may think “Why would God lead them to such a place?”
Glad you asked. It’s because there was water there. After the quails and the Aaron/Miriam episode, God was leading them to where they could find water. And He was showing them, and showing us, that even after we rebel against Him fiercely, even after our puny human minds can’t comprehend His provision and we dare to question Him, even after we show just how unworthy we are to be called His, He is still leading us and guiding us in the way that we should go. He may not take us out of the world when we first come to accept Christ as our Lord and Savior, He will most likely leave us here as a witness to His greatness and glory. He will lead us through trials and temptations, through desert and wilderness, through gale and flood, through wind and fire and rain and all sorts of tests so that when we overcome them through Him, we can say to each other and to the world, “God is good”. Robert Hawker sums up nicely this theme of Jesus’ love for us, and His patience in leading us in the love of God:
Reader! do not close this Chapter without having an eye in the intercession of Moses for Aaron and Miriam, to the intercession of JESUS on the cross, for those who crucified him. Oh! what a volume is folded up in that one prayer of JESUS to comfort poor sinners, and to show the all-prevailing efficacy of JESUS’S advocacy. FATHER! forgive them for they know not what they do. Oh! LAMB of GOD! let this first cry of thine upon the cross, be the first and last of my soul-reviving consolations under all the discouragements by reason of my unworthiness and neglect of thee. Surely, dear LORD! when I sin against thee, I know not what do.
Jesus Christ is Lord.
Amen.