Well, I jumped the gun and published Numbers 32 before I finished with Numbers 28 & 30 😕. So here is part 2 of those chapters
A wife was protected from making a rash vow by the headship of her husband. “But if her husband overrules her on the day that he hears it, he shall make void her vow which she took…and the LORD will release her.” In those days, women were beholden to their husbands. This is not to say that these women were always innocent, given that these commands were given while the people were still encamped in Moab, and were still threatened with deception by the Moabites (which may have also been taught them by the Moabites), and were learning all kinds of ways of deception. So they could have made a vow, the husbands could conceal this vow, then when the time came for the woman to make good on her vow, her husband could say “This is the first I’ve heard of it. I override her vow”. This would not be acceptable to God. John Calvin writes:
For many deceptions might have thus arisen; since it is usual with many when they wish to gratify their wives, to conceal their opinion for the time, but, when the period of actual performance arrives, to elude what may have been promised. But unless they use their privilege in proper time, God would have them bear the punishment of their servile indulgence and dissimulation; but because women are often urged to deceive by their levity and inconstancy, this danger is also anticipated.
This is not to say that all women are deceitful, or that they make vows that they do not intend to perform. But this is to say that this type of deception was anticipated by God, and He would not hold guiltless those who tried to thus deceive. Not to say that husbands could not attempt to deceive. “13 Every vow and every binding oath to afflict her soul, her husband may confirm it, or her husband may make it void. 14 Now if her husband makes no response whatever to her from day to day, then he confirms all her vows or all the agreements that bind her; he confirms them, because he made no response to her on the day that he heard them. 15 But if he does make them void after he has heard them, then he shall bear her guilt.” Some husbands could hold their peace when their wives made a vow, but if he does not overrule her on the day she made a vow, but lingers along for a time, the vow stands. And what would happen if she did not complete what she had vowed? Then the husband, being her head, would bear the punishment that she should have received. “But if he does make them void after he has heard them, then he shall bear her guilt.” This caveat not only protected the woman, but laid the onus of fulfilling that vow onto the husband.
The regulations became a little more tricky when the woman was a widow. 9 “Also any vow of a widow or a divorced woman, by which she has bound herself, shall stand against her. 10 If she vowed in her husband's house, or bound herself by an agreement with an oath, 11 and her husband heard it, and made no response to her and did not overrule her, then all her vows shall stand, and every agreement by which she bound herself shall stand. 12 But if her husband truly made them void on the day he heard them, then whatever proceeded from her lips concerning her vows or concerning the agreement binding her, it shall not stand; her husband has made them void, and the LORD will release her.” If any woman made a vow, that vow still stood even after the death of her husband, if that husband held his peace when she made the oath, she was still bound by that oath. She could not, should she remarry, cast off the vow she vowed simply because she now had a new husband. If she made a vow while still married to her first husband, and that husband did not overrule her, then she was still bound by that vow.
So what happened if someone did not fulfill their vow? Was there a penalty that could be paid or a sacrifice given? Yes. Leviticus 5:1, 4-7, 13—1 “If a person sins in hearing the utterance of an oath, and is a witness, whether he has seen or known of the matter—if he does not tell it, he bears guilt…4 Or if a person swears, speaking thoughtlessly with his lips to do evil or to do good, whatever it is that a man may pronounce by an oath, and he is unaware of it—when he realizes it, then he shall be guilty in any of these matters. 5 And it shall be, when he is guilty in any of these matters, that he shall confess that he has sinned in that thing; 6 and he shall bring his trespass offering to the LORD for his sin which he has committed, a female from the flock, a lamb or a kid of the goats as a sin offering. So the priest shall make atonement for him concerning his sin. 7 If he is not able to bring a lamb, then he shall bring to the LORD, for his trespass which he has committed, two turtledoves or two young pigeons: one as a sin offering and the other as a burnt offering…13 The priest shall make atonement for him, for his sin that he has committed in any of these matters; and it shall be forgiven him.”
Today, when someone commits a crime, and a person with that group consents to the commission of that crime (either verbally or silently), they are as guilty as the one committing that crime. Depending on their role they can be charged as either an accessory or as an accomplice. I won’t go into all the details of what each of these entail. Suffice it to say that even if they do not participate in the crime, but do not tell of the crime to the proper authorities, they can be charged, convicted and sentenced just as if they themselves had committed the crime. Likewise, if a person heard an oath being made, and the person making the vow reneged on that vow, and they say nothing, they are as guilty as the person making the oath, and they would bear the same guilt as the oath-breaker. King Zedekiah of Judah is a good example of this concept. We read of him in 2nd Chronicles 36, and he was the last king in Judah before King Nebuchadnezzar took him and the people captive to Babylon. What did he do that was so horrendous that would God allow the people to be taken captive, the city spoiled and the temple burned? 2nd Chronicles 36:12-13—12 He did evil in the sight of the LORD his God, and did not humble himself before Jeremiah the prophet, who spoke from the mouth of the LORD. 13 And he also rebelled against King Nebuchadnezzar, who had made him swear an oath by God; but he stiffened his neck and hardened his heart against turning to the LORD God of Israel. Zedekiah was installed as king by Nebuchadnezzar, after many battles between Babylon and Egypt, with Babylon finally prevailing. He was not a rightful king for Judah. Nebuchadnezzar forced Zedekiah to make a vow to God, and what did Zedekiah do? He stiffened his neck and hardened his heart against turning to the LORD God of Israel. He reneged on that vow. Does the fact that Zedekiah made the vow under duress change the fact that he vowed to YHVH? No. So he should have completed that vow. But he didn’t. In addition, he allowed the house of God to be defiled, ignored and humiliated those sent by God to turn his heart to God, and filled up the measure of his sin against God, until God had no choice but to allow the nation of Judah to fall into the hands of Nebuchadnezzar for 70 years.
Today, we would do well to avoid making vows we don’t intend to fulfill. Ecclesiastes 5:4-6—4 When you make a vow to God, do not delay to pay it; for He has no pleasure in fools. Pay what you have vowed—5 Better not to vow than to vow and not pay. 6 Do not let your mouth cause your flesh to sin, nor say before the messenger of God that it was an error. Why should God be angry at your excuse and destroy the work of your hands? Ever hear someone says “I swear to God, if you…”? They have just taken a vow to God. This is another example of the Third Commandment, “You shall not take the name of the LORD your God in vain, for the LORD will not hold him guiltless who takes His name in vain” (Exodus 20:7). Be careful when you invoke the name of YHVH in swearing or making an oath. The apostle Paul was not rash with the name of God, but he invoked it while making a case that was true. Romans 1:9—For God is my witness, whom I serve with my spirit in the gospel of His Son, that without ceasing I make mention of you always in my prayers. 1st Thessalonians 2:5—For neither at any time did we use flattering words, as you know, nor a cloak for covetousness—God is witness. The other writers of Scripture also noted that God is a faithful witness. 1st John 5:8-10—8 And there are three that bear witness on earth: the Spirit, the water, and the blood; and these three agree as one. 9 If we receive the witness of men, the witness of God is greater; for this is the witness of God which He has testified of His Son. 10 He who believes in the Son of God has the witness in himself; he who does not believe God has made Him a liar, because he has not believed the testimony that God has given of His Son. The examples give credence to another of the Ten Commandments, Exodus 20:16—“You shall not bear false witness against your neighbor.” Jesus gave us some good advice about making oaths in His Sermon on the Mount in Matthew 5:33-37—33 “Again you have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not swear falsely, but shall perform your oaths to the Lord.' 34 But I say to you, do not swear at all: neither by heaven, for it is God's throne; 35 nor by the earth, for it is His footstool; nor by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the great King. 36 Nor shall you swear by your head, because you cannot make one hair white or black. 37 But let your 'Yes' be 'Yes,' and your 'No,' 'No.' For whatever is more than these is from the evil one.” When you make a vow, do not go beyond what you can fulfill, lest you become a liar in the eyes of God. If you take an oath to perform more than you can bear—or if your oath is dependent upon someone else fulfilling it—you can become guilty before God (Proverbs 6:1-2). There is One who will swear and will always fulfill. There is One who will always and forever be a true and faithful witness. There is One who will always come through when He makes a promise.
Standing on the promises that cannot fail/When the howling storms of doubt and fear assail,
By the living Word of God I shall prevail/Standing on the promises of God.
Standing on the promises of Christ, the Lord/Bound to him eternally by love's strong cord,
Overcoming daily with the Spirit's sword/Standing on the promises of God.
Standing on the promises I cannot fall/List'ning ev'ry moment to the Spirit's call,
Resting in my Savior as my all in all/Standing on the promises of God.
(“Standing on the Promises” by Russell Kelso Carter)
Jesus Christ is Lord.
Amen.
